Thursday, March 26, 2015

Kids and The Emotion Code

So I have been using this Emotion Code for the past several months with extraordinary results for myself and others. I have used it a few times on my kiddos, but hadn't really concentrated efforts on them until last night. And Can I just say WOW?!

As a mother, who has waded through my share of ups and downs in relationship, parenting and all that comes with doing my best to live consciously and raise aware/awake kiddos without loosing my mind (or center)...I have not succeeded in "protecting" said young ones from having to experience perhaps more than a boat load of crazy mishaps, heavy emotions and change.

Now, one would argue that every being "chooses" their experiences on one level or another, in order to "prepare" them for the life they have to live. To some degree, this just makes us feel good about all the crap that actually happens to us and our children, stuff that we may feel we had or have no control over. But...what if you could do something about all the insane energies and exposure to "issues" that you believe your children (and you) could probably live without?

I am a firm believer that whatever I can do for my kids, in order to create the most fertile soil and positive environment for their growth and enrichment, I want to do that. Even if it means taking away some of what I think I would like to go through, for the sake of love, trial and error and getting good stories to write about...(that last one is kind of an inside joke to myself).

So...when I first started studying this Emotion Code stuff, I really thought of my oldest, and all he has been through since his dad and I breaking up. I know he has waded through more than his share of emotional turbulence and I was really hoping this technique could help him feel lighter, fresher and more present in his small 7-year old life. I mean, you are not supposed to worry so extravagantly at age 7, are you? You aren't supposed to get depressed, or cry yourself to sleep or have major fits of anger - are you?

The truth is, and I know it - that his troubles are my troubles too. He is an extension of me and on one level I knew I had to clear much of my own left over "baggage" before I could really address his. Well ... I am thrilled to report that last night I got the nudge. He was asleep on my floor and it was late, but something inside me said "do it now."  So I sat down beside his small, curled up frame, strewn with blankets and amid four pillows and tuned in. I asked his spirit if I could proxy for him and I got this rush of feelings throughout my body. I knew it was time.

As I sat in the dimly lit room just after midnight, it was no stranger to my mind that we were sitting in some of the most powerful times of the year and his lifetime thus far. In the window of two incredibly charged eclipse energies...I have noticed more than a few things amped up as of late and I felt this was the perfect time to take advantage of cosmic impetus.

I looked at my Emotion Code chart and started in. I had recently learned a new way to dig deep for issues and pull them out like a long thick rope of assure getting to the core issue. I did one after the other, and as they came up: dread, crying, despair, heartache...I couldn't help it - I started to cry. These were in me too.

Images of the exact moments where I knew these emotions lodged for him came into my mind. That day in the rain, leaving Portland, his family, his home...his lack a better choice for him and my own heart breaking. It all came up and I whimpered in the dark as I peeled out one after the other. I gazed to my son. I wanted to curl up next to him and hold him near. Sweet boy, he has been through so much at such a young age. But I had more to clear for him, the message was strong.

As we removed one stuck emotion after the other, my own body felt deeper and deeper relief. It was as if I could see the layers peeling away from him as he seemed to sink, right before my eyes, into a more relaxed and calm state.

After I reached the end of his session, which was rather long for such a young person, I decided to do work on my other sleeping boy. He too had been exposed to many strong emotions since his incarnation, much of which took place while he grew inside of me.

It was strange doing work on such a little. Being just over one year old I could see, yet again, clearly the moments of impact when I received the "age" for the stuck emotion. Instead of asking "did this occur before the age of 20, 10, 5, between 5-10, 6, 7, 8?" it was more like "did this become stuck before 12 months, before 6? before 3?, at birth?" and then it became apparent that while in the womb, especially early on while I struggled so much with doing the whole thing largely on my own, he had taken on feelings of guilt, confusion, betrayal and abandonment from me.

Again, I pulled out the stacked emotions one by one with each clearing. I cried some more, hardly able to believe that someone so small could be carrying so much. Yet I knew it was true, because I had felt it, and he was with me, so attached, so close.

Just as I finished my littlest and brought my attention back to my own body, his cries could be heard down the hall. He must have felt the completion of the session. I went to hold him to me and rock him back to sleep. It was a full night already, but the best was yet to come.

This morning, my oldest got up quietly from the floor and tiptoed over to peek on me, now nestled with his brother. Where he used to feel it necessary to try and wake us, he found his clothes and instead made his way silently from the room. He even remembered to pull the door shut behind him, for maybe the first time ever.

Once we were all up for breakfast, and as my oldest moved toward the hour of school, he showed none of the "usual" displays of difficulty and got himself ready to go with hardly a word of encouragement. His grandfather, who knew nothing of the clearing I'd done, commented to me in a whisper as he left to take him to school, "he is being so amazing!" He was. He had even taken a moment to whisper to his little brother how adorable he was, and that was definitely new!

As the morning progressed I noticed a marked change in my youngest as well. He played more freely, needed to coddle less and was generally and overall more relaxed and joyful.

I know it was the Emotion Code that enacted these changes. 

I am still on the early side of telling just how these changes continue to affect them...I mean it has only been 14 hours since the sessions. But knowing how profound the changes have been for me and others from this amazing work, I will not be surprised if things only dramatically get better from here.

There may be a few more emotions to get "unstuck" from the kids, and then it will be necessary to encourage continued positive reactions and processing of future occurrences so they do not trap any future emotions, but to know that they can both move through childhood and into their older years without all those negative feelings from their past....this brings me great peace. Mostly because, as an Emotion Code practitioner, I have worked with many people where we have gone back to the ages of my two sons and before, and cleared things not too dissimilar to what I cleared for them...except these people were 30, 40, 50 years old.

I knew I loved the Emotion Code from the moment I first understood what was happening. But I am even more in love with it today. Every day I am adding more to my website about this amazing practice and what to do "after" the emotions are released. If you are interested in knowing more, please contact me. I feel like everyone can benefit from this work....and really -- I want to be there for  you too!

May there be Bliss in your house today - both inside and out - like there is in mine!

Without those things that "stuck"

~ Stasia

Saturday, March 7, 2015

Cooperation in the Whole to Reach the Next Octave

We are all feeling it. Maybe it's the energy of this Virgo Full Moon? Maybe it is the intensity of the year building upon itself, drawing out more and more of who we truly are - more clearly into the light. Whatever it is, I can't be certain, but what I do know, without a shadow lurking anywhere in the recesses....I am not supposed to do this alone.

Now, of course I know that ultimately you and I are alone, In fact, I am a believer in the truth that there is really only ONE of us - we are all connected, all one being manifesting in a myriad of different ways for our pleasure and interaction. But/AND...I know that we put ourselves here in this way with these perceived "others" to do just that - interact. I am feeling it now more than ever.

We are all becoming increasingly more transparent as we realize ourselves and our potentiality. We are also beginning to SEE one another more clearly and recognize that it is always better to go at things together - like one big team. We are all on the same side. There is no need for competition or anything of the sort - no. We are each unique in our divine expressions and I know that if we tune in to one another, it will become increasingly more and more clear how it is that we are each here to SUPPORT one another - and not the opposite.

I could never take away from you - what you are here to do. I just couldn't - it's YOURS to do. And likewise, you could never take from me - what I am here to do - impossible... I am the only ME.
Once we get a handle on this - we can begin to spiderweb our lives more intentionally, to "network" each other and find a place for one another in the picture we all run around in.

Some of the people in this game I know have known this and have been playing the role of the "connector" and the "networker" for quite a while now. Well...I am catching up more and more....and so this blog I wanted to dedicate to the cosmic shout out of all the amazing individuals I know and what they are up case you don't know them or OF you can.

Let me start with incredible music - because who doesn't love some positive, uplifting, sweet tunes?
I wrote an article recently about a few of my favorites including the amazing Cybelle Clements, Amy Steinberg, Laura Berman and others - which you can visit here - Music That Inspires Me.

Other incredible musicians...well, this is a toughy cause I know I can't possibly name you all here now, this will have to carry on to other posts - but here are a few others that I cannot do without:

Michael Mandrell
Lauri Jones
Gary Michael Skye
Terra Bundance
Annika Forest
Visionary Music
Hang Music

Incredible photography on your mind? Need some photos for your business or your family? Live in Portland, Oregon?... Well, I have to say that I have knowledge of more amazing photographers than maybe most people due to my time in the industry, but one of the most incredible women I know - another cosmic sister - is a hot-rockin' photographer and I would recommend her to anyone, and that is Jen Moore: (Here is one of hers:)

If it's nature images or just a stunning album cover - (see Cybelle's image above) - Terry Asker, wildlife and nature photographer captures the world with the eyes of beauty, grace and gratitude.

If you are in Seattle - and especially if you are really wanting some amazing art to happen...I am not even sure if you could catch him he's so busy, but if you could, it would be so well worth your time and cash - and to get some images by this man in this lifetime - an incredible he is a dear soul, and that is Paul Hernandez at;

If you are in California, more south...or plan the trip just right - and especially if you are a goddess...and want to embody this aspect of self in some mind-blowing images - Scott Belding (image left)is the man with the camera. What a gentle soul placed behind the lens to interpret the vision of the goddess onto paper, digitally enhanced. But even more than about the photos themselves, it is about the experience of empowerment you can find when working with Scott in the present moment in front of the camera.

So now, to another level of reality...

Okay, so I am doing all this Emotion Code work with people, and there are so many angles to healing. Seriously, I am walking this path and starting to recognize at what point we need one another to continue the journey. I want to point you in the direction of:

Dave Markowitz as a Psychic Intuitive, Counselor and incredible author of Self Care for the Self Aware. He is a dear dear man and friend and I absolutely love what he has to offer people in the way of healing and self-care.

Another gift, stumbled upon recently, is by an inspired poet and healer - Jack Adam Weber. He is a Chinese Medicine doctor and Acupuncturist who brings poetry into the art of healing in a most unique and inspiring way. I have been uplifted and transformed internally by the words of some of his simplest poems and feel that he is someone walking the cutting edge where linear reality melts off into the creative zone of spirit and intuition. His poems awaken the dream codes of life and remind us of the truth resonating within. You can find him at

If you need some TLC and someone to hold the greater vision for you in your time of healing and expansion - I can think of no better people to send you to than Michael Doss or Christine Ruddy. Gorgeous souls who hold the truth for others with grace and strength.

If you can't quite make out what is going on in your life and in the cosmos, you might just need some Astrological Interpretation done by the incredibly insightful Tom Lescher in his weekly Pele Report.

I just found an amazing site with simple exercises for balancing the meridians of the body - some of which might get out of wack when releasing many trapped emotions. CristinasEnergyCenter. I highly recommend the Triple Warmer Soother exercise as well as the Creating Happiness and Connecting Heaven and Earth.

If you need support in your relationships and are looking to expand your notion thereof - One Bryan Reeves - The Relationship Ninja. Bryan is a down to earth person with an expanded vision of relationship. He asks people to look at the bigger picture and to play it out in the "smaller" world of interaction and inner space. I truly admire Bryan's views on relationship and how it affects the greater whole to be in balance. He mirrors my own perspective on relationship almost down to a tee.
particular  person comes to mind -

Artist & Sufi Mystic, Author, Freedom fighter David Seacord has always some valuable insights and is just about to release a CD of his incredibly inspiring music.

This community shout out is going to have to continue into several editions. I appreciate so much those in the expanding web of consciousness and truly believe that when we link up, work together and network - life becomes a more amazing, workable, playful, expansive, abundant place.
It's all about US. - - the Universal Source within us all.

May Bliss be in your House today - as it is in mine.

Stasia Bliss