Thursday, March 26, 2015

Kids and The Emotion Code

So I have been using this Emotion Code for the past several months with extraordinary results for myself and others. I have used it a few times on my kiddos, but hadn't really concentrated efforts on them until last night. And Can I just say WOW?!

As a mother, who has waded through my share of ups and downs in relationship, parenting and all that comes with doing my best to live consciously and raise aware/awake kiddos without loosing my mind (or center)...I have not succeeded in "protecting" said young ones from having to experience perhaps more than a boat load of crazy mishaps, heavy emotions and change.

Now, one would argue that every being "chooses" their experiences on one level or another, in order to "prepare" them for the life they have to live. To some degree, this just makes us feel good about all the crap that actually happens to us and our children, stuff that we may feel we had or have no control over. But...what if you could do something about all the insane energies and exposure to "issues" that you believe your children (and you) could probably live without?

I am a firm believer that whatever I can do for my kids, in order to create the most fertile soil and positive environment for their growth and enrichment, I want to do that. Even if it means taking away some of what I think I would like to go through, for the sake of love, trial and error and getting good stories to write about...(that last one is kind of an inside joke to myself).

So...when I first started studying this Emotion Code stuff, I really thought of my oldest, and all he has been through since his dad and I breaking up. I know he has waded through more than his share of emotional turbulence and I was really hoping this technique could help him feel lighter, fresher and more present in his small 7-year old life. I mean, you are not supposed to worry so extravagantly at age 7, are you? You aren't supposed to get depressed, or cry yourself to sleep or have major fits of anger - are you?

The truth is, and I know it - that his troubles are my troubles too. He is an extension of me and on one level I knew I had to clear much of my own left over "baggage" before I could really address his. Well ... I am thrilled to report that last night I got the nudge. He was asleep on my floor and it was late, but something inside me said "do it now."  So I sat down beside his small, curled up frame, strewn with blankets and amid four pillows and tuned in. I asked his spirit if I could proxy for him and I got this rush of feelings throughout my body. I knew it was time.

As I sat in the dimly lit room just after midnight, it was no stranger to my mind that we were sitting in some of the most powerful times of the year and his lifetime thus far. In the window of two incredibly charged eclipse energies...I have noticed more than a few things amped up as of late and I felt this was the perfect time to take advantage of cosmic impetus.

I looked at my Emotion Code chart and started in. I had recently learned a new way to dig deep for issues and pull them out like a long thick rope of assure getting to the core issue. I did one after the other, and as they came up: dread, crying, despair, heartache...I couldn't help it - I started to cry. These were in me too.

Images of the exact moments where I knew these emotions lodged for him came into my mind. That day in the rain, leaving Portland, his family, his home...his lack a better choice for him and my own heart breaking. It all came up and I whimpered in the dark as I peeled out one after the other. I gazed to my son. I wanted to curl up next to him and hold him near. Sweet boy, he has been through so much at such a young age. But I had more to clear for him, the message was strong.

As we removed one stuck emotion after the other, my own body felt deeper and deeper relief. It was as if I could see the layers peeling away from him as he seemed to sink, right before my eyes, into a more relaxed and calm state.

After I reached the end of his session, which was rather long for such a young person, I decided to do work on my other sleeping boy. He too had been exposed to many strong emotions since his incarnation, much of which took place while he grew inside of me.

It was strange doing work on such a little. Being just over one year old I could see, yet again, clearly the moments of impact when I received the "age" for the stuck emotion. Instead of asking "did this occur before the age of 20, 10, 5, between 5-10, 6, 7, 8?" it was more like "did this become stuck before 12 months, before 6? before 3?, at birth?" and then it became apparent that while in the womb, especially early on while I struggled so much with doing the whole thing largely on my own, he had taken on feelings of guilt, confusion, betrayal and abandonment from me.

Again, I pulled out the stacked emotions one by one with each clearing. I cried some more, hardly able to believe that someone so small could be carrying so much. Yet I knew it was true, because I had felt it, and he was with me, so attached, so close.

Just as I finished my littlest and brought my attention back to my own body, his cries could be heard down the hall. He must have felt the completion of the session. I went to hold him to me and rock him back to sleep. It was a full night already, but the best was yet to come.

This morning, my oldest got up quietly from the floor and tiptoed over to peek on me, now nestled with his brother. Where he used to feel it necessary to try and wake us, he found his clothes and instead made his way silently from the room. He even remembered to pull the door shut behind him, for maybe the first time ever.

Once we were all up for breakfast, and as my oldest moved toward the hour of school, he showed none of the "usual" displays of difficulty and got himself ready to go with hardly a word of encouragement. His grandfather, who knew nothing of the clearing I'd done, commented to me in a whisper as he left to take him to school, "he is being so amazing!" He was. He had even taken a moment to whisper to his little brother how adorable he was, and that was definitely new!

As the morning progressed I noticed a marked change in my youngest as well. He played more freely, needed to coddle less and was generally and overall more relaxed and joyful.

I know it was the Emotion Code that enacted these changes. 

I am still on the early side of telling just how these changes continue to affect them...I mean it has only been 14 hours since the sessions. But knowing how profound the changes have been for me and others from this amazing work, I will not be surprised if things only dramatically get better from here.

There may be a few more emotions to get "unstuck" from the kids, and then it will be necessary to encourage continued positive reactions and processing of future occurrences so they do not trap any future emotions, but to know that they can both move through childhood and into their older years without all those negative feelings from their past....this brings me great peace. Mostly because, as an Emotion Code practitioner, I have worked with many people where we have gone back to the ages of my two sons and before, and cleared things not too dissimilar to what I cleared for them...except these people were 30, 40, 50 years old.

I knew I loved the Emotion Code from the moment I first understood what was happening. But I am even more in love with it today. Every day I am adding more to my website about this amazing practice and what to do "after" the emotions are released. If you are interested in knowing more, please contact me. I feel like everyone can benefit from this work....and really -- I want to be there for  you too!

May there be Bliss in your house today - both inside and out - like there is in mine!

Without those things that "stuck"

~ Stasia

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